My friends and family like to tell people I’m a sex therapist. I get it. It’s interesting! But the truth is, I am not a sex therapist. I do sex therapy. {One must be certified to be called a “sex therapist” and while I have met most of the requirements needed, I’m not there yet.} But even once I am technically a sex therapist, I think I will hesitate to use that label. Maybe it’s because most folks picture that I do something like the mom in Meet the Fockers… you know, helping old folks grind with their partners on yoga mats. Nope, not me. I don’t do that.
But here’s what I do do (hehe, couldn’t resist):
– I help regular folks (like you!) rekindle their intimacy after having kids or years of marriage. Sometimes we just get into a rut…
– I help people who have been sexually abused or raped heal and discover that their sexuality isn’t something to be used or taken, but a gift to be enjoyed in the appropriate context.
– I help single women recover from unhealthy relationship patterns and reconcile what it means to be single, Christian, and also sexual!
– I help folks for whom sex is physically or emotionally painful.
– I help folks who no longer believe the lies of culture and want to learn another way. The lies that include, but are not limited to:
- Sex is just physical
- Sex with many partners is normal and healthy
- Pornography is a natural part of a man’s life
{Bottom line: My passion is to help people have healthy sexual identities and passionate marriages!}
If you’re interested in therapy, know someone who is, or you just have questions…I’d love to hear from you! click here.